Do you know what you want for your life? I mean really, really, really want? Think about it for a moment…I’ll wait. It is an intriguing throught, isn’t it? It is the first question I ask all my clients before we start coaching together and nine out of ten times, the response is one of two things, a very quiet, “I don’t know” or an energetic, “I’ll tell you what I want. I don’t want my job. I don’t want my house. I don’t want to feel the way I do.” You get the picture. Most of us aren’t actually aware of what we want because we are painfully aware, and focused on, what we don’t want.